Today is a very special day. 3 years ago today I married the love of my life. I sit here in wow that it's been 3 years. I guess it's true when they say "Time flies when you're having fun". Yeah time has not been all flowers and bubbles but it's been great nonetheless.
The funny thing is is that when we got married of course I had all those people come up to me after our honeymoon asking us when we were going to have kids. I thought that was somewhat of a personal question but you do what you can to get them to go away. I told them we wanted to wait about 3 years before we had any kids. You think that 3 years is a long time, enough time to get what you wanted to do out of the way before you have kids. You think that having kids will ruin your fun, and you will just be that boring mom and dad. Addyson hasn't been born yet but I think that all those things that you thought would be fun before kids just changes when you actually have them. I look at Stephen and laugh becuase 2 years ago he was scared to death of the thought of having kids. Now this man that I love deeply talks to our baby like she is right there in his arms. They have these conversations that I guess only daddy and daughter have. Don't get me wrong I love our baby girl and I know that I will love her so much more when I see her, but I think the bond between Stephen and her is amazing and the funny thing is she isn't even here, so if he is like this now then it's going to be trully the greatest thing watching him bond with her in 2 months. When you think of daddy and child bonding you think of son and dad, but I so see him bonding with her like she is the most precious being on earth. I think that has made me love him more, to know that he loves the person that is part of both of us with everything in him. That he will do anything to protect her. It's just crazy how your life changes when you are getting ready to have a child.
So taking me back to the greatest man in the world, it's been the best 3 years of my life. I've had Stephen there for me to cry on to laugh with and to just be myself around. I think he knows me more than anyone (other than God). He knows when to let me be mad and vent and he knows when I just need to laugh. He is my best friend and my loving and wonderful husband.
Stephen, Thanks for being there for me, and thanks for already being the best father, I can't wait to see what more God has in store for the THREE of us in the years to come.
Did you think after 3 years you would actually get me to start hanging my clothes up instead of leaving them draped over something???? Good because I didn't start within those three years I'm not starting now. LOL I love you forever and always.
Happy Anniversary!!!
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